Crashed Honda Jazz

On a holiday on may 17th, me and my family went to ITC Permata Hijau, cause as usual every leasure day, my son asked my husband to play the battery car there.

When we arrived, we saw a crowded people nearby parking field, my husband stopped the motorcycle, to look what was happening. When I got closer by my self, I saw a very bad turned side up crashed Honda Jazz that was already just in a half body. That jazz was being tried to be opened by people.Then I saw a bleeded hand of a woman from the door window, bleeded head of 12th years old boy and an adult man. But frankly, I didn't see their hug each other as the news said. Maybe that was because of the car that became just in a half, so it make that the victims were look very close from back to front, but no hug at all.

Oops, what a view! Look like that Jazz just flew away from the 6th floor of that ITC. From the news I heard that that family just had their prayer from a church on the 8th floor, then the wife who just learnt to drive a car for 2 month tried to drive the jazz. Unfortunately, she hadn't used to drive through the spiral road of that ITC. So, that was why that car thrown away down by crashing the wall.

Wow, I took the pictures and recorded the situation when the victim being tried to be evacuated, but unfortunately then my husband ask me to stop recording to get into the ITC, cause he didn't want our son saw that "bleedy" condition.

I was a little shaking with that witnessing experience, but anyway I thank god that the Jazz was not thrown down on me, when we passed that place to get to the motorcycle parking field!

Date habit

One of my uniqe habit is I usually give a date to every stuff of when that things I bought, such as refrigerator, phonecell, standfan, dispenser, cupboard or even my son's bath tub. I do it in order to know what's the age of everything above whenever it got to be repaired. I write the date at the hidden place of the stuff it self, usually in hidden place at the corner.

But for now, I'm a little lazy to write the date of when those are bought, maybe because now I think it's not necessary to always write the date, or I already bored with this habit, which I think is not very useful for my life. So, this is a useless story too huh?!

The Rain

In the several days, Jakarta get alot of rain, especially in the morning. Most people hate rain, but I'm not. I love rain, even it hard rain that's drop all over Jakarta, cause I think Jakarta's weather that's alway warm also always need to be refreshed.

As today, Jakarta in showered by continuously rain since in the early day l , I enjoy it, even my son has to go to school and he want to go by riding his bicycle, and he doesn't want to be accompanied. So, I covered him by a rain coat, then watch him from distance, not to let him alone in any bad journey possibility.

But dear rain, tomorrow is the beginning of a long weekend,please cancel your daily arrival till night, cause I don't want to miss this weekend just by staying at home.

friend

Friends, wise men say that we will not ever get enough friend for our life. A good friend is a person to whom we can share about anything such as stories, happines or mostly, if I could say that is for most, our sadness. Cause we do never can deny that one of the therapy in losing our sadness is by sharing it with to a "listenable" fellow.


But, to get a real friend is not that easy as we shake our hand to introduce ourselves by telling our name to be a friend, cause not everyone who knows us will be able to be a good one to talk with as friend.


I think one of the difficulties to have a friend or being a good friend is have to be built inside ourselves mind first, just like can we just understand people as we want to be understood by them? Can we listen to another as we want to be listened by them? And then, if we do finally find a kind of someone who's sharedable about anything, we cannot always telling them our pityness life story cause it's gonna make our friend very bored to be our friend. I know it's very easy to talk about those perfect friend theories, but it is must be pretty hard to be done, cause every human has his egos which sometimes, or mostly, wanna be the only one to be understood by all people around.


And so, in my life, I never think I'm already a good friend, cause sometimes I hate another just because of their habit that is different with mine, and that's a very bad ego habit right? So for now on, hopefully I'm not only can write this cheap wrote, but also can do the theory above to be a good friend for another. Amin..